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iammyownrushmore · 3488 days ago · link · · parent · post: California's Sexual Consent Law Will Ruin Good Sex for Women
I sincerely don't understand why it is so difficult for some people to just freakin talk about the thing you're doing!! Every time I have a new partner, I pretty much force them to have a conversation about exactly what they are in to, and if the situation is developing more "organically" or whatever (meaning without previous conversation with some dictating of boundaries) , check in at every step of the way. It's not hard. It's not hard to do without ruining the flow, either. However, having a bureaucratic organization oversee this process posthumously? Sounds like a nightmare.