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lil  ·  3760 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Hubski, what're you gonna be when you grow up?

    I stopped listening as much to what other people told me they thought I should do. I started to realize that the things I thought I wanted all along aren't really what /I want/, but rather, what I thought /I should/ do.
Bonjour: know this. Therapists offices are FULL of people in their 30s, 40s, and 50 etc who did what other people told them they should do.

University undergraduate advisors offices are FULL of people who want to change their major, then change it again, because someone told them that they HAD to be a something or other.

On the other hand, nowaypablo and you in your last paragraph make good points. It's better to do as much as you can and learn as much as you can with passion and intensity then to do nothing. I hope you are interested in a lot of things. The universe is full of awesomeness.