If I may chime in - I'm a selfish fella, at least in regards to my personal time. I lost a LOT of it when my daughter was born but I've somehow found ways to get most of it back. I waste less time and I get by on about 2 hours less sleep than I used to. But the craziest thing is how much more efficient I am with time. I never realized the full opportunity cost of my time before. I watch about 1/8th of the movies I used to, I watch about 1/4 of the TV series I used too. You prioritize. I still make a ton of music, spend a ton of time on Hubski and I'm creative in ways I've not been since I was a kid. -playing is F-U-N. You'll dig it. You'll be amazed at where you find the time. There's no doubt that your life is going to change forever, but truly it is a good change, if you're ready for it. Based on what I've learned about you via our conversations here I'd wager you are. Good luck to you!