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"Maybe that's the point of fixating on the unattainable--one can't ever discover the other's humanity." I have had crushes on girls that I ended up dating and you are spot on. Once you realize that their shit does in fact stink, the guild is off the lillie. Good observation.
A word like "gender" carries a lot of baggage with it. It means different things to different people.