One less thing to think about. -that's actually a very thoughtful idea.Don't discount booze as a gift, I would have loved if someone had given me a bottle of booze. Make them an easy assemble or reheat dinner if no one has set up this kind of service for then.
this is good advice from cgod. I know I mentioned champagne, but booze too. Also, most people don't have their meals set up and it's nice to have that.
We definitely had help, don't get me wrong. It just wasn't planned. mk and gq came by with food as I recall. cW dropped off a basket of goodies too. But it was all pretty haphazard, with no real structure. It all worked out well though. I could see how having a plan might be a good idea. We took it all in stride. It was a fantastic time in my life. Probably the best.