I know the transgender thing can be difficult for people to understand - but it seems pretty critical to me to feel that you are your body and your body is you.
Best formerly female friend is now living pretty happily as a boy, calls himself liminal, no surgery.
Also a cousin doing brilliantly as an f to m, including surgery.
Male relative struggling with transition issues, but at 65 there are some fears that the hormones might exacerbate already existing heart disease.
How is it that I personally know three trans people. What about the rest of you? Do you think you could always tell? I'm pretty sure NOT.