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ecib  ·  4049 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: I'm a shut-in. This is my story.

This popped into my newfeed, and was my "coax me out of sleep mode while still in bed" read for the morning.

I feel sorry for this kid. He's definitely got some challenges socially. The moment he mentioned starting a business I knew the outcome, and it was confirmed a million words later in 'On Fire.' You can't sell things to people if you can't interact with them. You can't build things that take more than one person to build if you can't communicate without causing severe pain to yourself. I didn't see the ending coming though. It was definitely a bright sign. Accepting who you are and just being yourself is a prerequisite to happiness and functioning well with other people (business, personal relationships etc). It's totally fine to be a complete, benign weirdo. There are around 7 billion people on Earth. Plenty of them will be totally fine with you, no matter how weird you are. If I had to make a prescription that I am in no way qualified to make, I's suggest the author do exactly what he said he's going to to, -find a place where he can just be around people that share his professional interests and be his own weird self. Eventually he'll find a workable productive environment that probably contains some good working relationships and maybe even a couple personal ones at some level. I really thought this was going to be a treatise on isolation until the end though.