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ilex · 1480 days ago · link · · parent · post: What it’s like to isolate with your girlfriend and her other boyfriend
Yeah I would feel weird not being able to at least have a cup of tea with serious metamours, and I think any relationship where one meta actively dislikes another is probably not going to work out long term. Monogamous relationship assumptions get to be unstated because a lot of society is structured to expect them. Figuring out how to do polyamory well takes a lot of talking but once you figure it out, it's pretty mundane, at least in my experience?