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Quatrarius  ·  64 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Pubski: August 15, 2018

here i am in the great state of phallicornia, more specifically in santa barbara

there are mountains and an ocean and lovely weather

and also there are my two best friends that i've finally met in person for the first time and it's been complicated and wonderful and i'm feeling and experiencing complicated and wonderful things

i had starbucks coffee (2 shots of espresso and two packets of brown sugar) for the first time and it tasted burnt but also not too bad - maybe i like coffee now. espresso fixes the problem i have with coffee where i have a third-to-half of a cup and then can't finish the rest of it no matter the size of the cup because there's less bullshit in it, maybe, except for the bullshit i want in it

i don't know what espresso is

it seems like the general opinion is that everybody hates online dating, but what about online sex-finding? i have low standards - would it be worth making a tinder account or a grindr account? i've been seriously considering it for the last little while and shockingly i'm leaning towards yes - now that i don't hate myself as much i seem to have discovered that i'm quite comfortable with sex-type-stuff, which was a bit of a mindfuck to connect the dots on

i'm assuming y'all don't really want to hear about it but i would genuinely appreciate the advice although i can guess the general tenor of what it would be




Cumol  ·  63 days ago  ·  link  ·  

I don't know how Tinder in the US is. But in Germany it is not so easy to find a "fuck date". At least not for me. Had better luck finding a date through OkCupid. It seems like the place where the weird one hang out (in europe/germany).

I know from some gay friends in Tel Aviv that Grindr is amazing. If you want a hookup, it is just 15 minutes away, any time of the day.

Maybe that helps, good luck :)