And I don't need to be told to "clean my room."
He's not talking to you, then. He's talking to the young and lost in the world, unsure of what they want or need. To the people who had everything about them taken care for by their parents, so without their frame of the world they're incapable of finding their way.
It's why he's a university professor and not a life coach. He made his audience clear: it's the young men and women attending his classes who are most often as lost as he antidotes against.