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comment by oyster
oyster  ·  2957 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: He Called Me His 'Girlfriend'

This is so relevant to modern dating, I think somebody is your boyfriend/girlfriend when one person asks for that and the other agrees. We never communicate anymore, we just guess and it's driving us all crazy.





arguewithatree  ·  2957 days ago  ·  link  ·  

yup. a friend of mine asked us in a group chat if 6 dates was enough to "define the relationship"... yes?? no?? talk to them not us cuz we don't know?? this shit makes me crazy.