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oyster  ·  2758 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: What should teenagers spend their time doing?

    They didnt really have any interest in me and according to your definition that would have put me on the receiving end of asshole behavior.

A lot of people consider using guys for free stuff to be asshole behaviour. Also I feel like what you call dating really isn't anymore. It's hanging out and having casual sex which is a hell of a lot more honest. Dating implies actual interest beyond hanging out and screwing.



snoodog  ·  2758 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Yes this, we can finally agree. My intended advice was that its OK to netflix and chill with a fat chick. And that you can live that socal stigma down and still come out ahead. IMO all dating at that age level is casual anyway.

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oyster  ·  2758 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Yaa we stopped being ashamed of casual sex years ago so nobody really bothers to pretend it's dating anymore.

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