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comment by pushka
pushka  ·  3205 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: 16 way split - Personality Types - Briggs Myers Jung

Yeah everything is unconcious for me too.. like an instinct reflex knee-jerk reaction -

unhealthy boundaries: I may quickly gravitate towards someone romantically/ too close and intense straight away - then second thing - ignoring their boundaries, and sacrificing mine/myself to serve others against their will,

Then I may resent the relationship because I gave up control, not being able to say no to requests - later feel like I want out / not be too close emotionally, avoiding conflict - resenting the service while pretending to be happy and ok, then throwing everything away ...

..a bit crazy/ messed up....

Drives have been good - I'm in a bad habit of listening to music..