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comment by T-Dog
T-Dog  ·  3543 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Hubski, what did you learn about yourself from your last relationship?

I have no idea how to be single. When you're with somebody for long enough it becomes really easy to abandon your sense of personal identity and take comfort in the idea that this partner will always be around. Then, when that doesn't work out, you have to re learn how to feel comfortable being alone. It's really difficult for me, I can't recall a time in my life where I've been okay with being single - it's always either in a relationship, or waiting to be in a relationship.