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mk  ·  3742 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Unfollow guilt

It's interesting, although I had to read it three times to understand it. :)

I do worry that it might be too complex, and I expect that people would often be sending me PMs asking why they can see some of their followers, but not others. Also, I am not sure if it solves ecib's guilt problem, as it becomes most problematic when you have familiarity with the user you want to unfollow. This might only work to increase that familiarity, as my view-able follower list would be smaller than it would be now. They might feel more scrutiny.





humanodon  ·  3742 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Sorry! I think the GRE questions are messing with my ability to structure thoughts . . .

    I do worry that it might be too complex, and I expect that people would often be sending me PMs asking why they can see some of their followers, but not others.

I can see that. No need to implement one's own headache. I'm not really sure that there is a way around guilt, at least not via the structure of Hubski, since the user presumably understands the choice they are making by unfollowing someone, whatever the mechanism.

One thing I've noticed in discussions about followers and following, is that people tend to mention that they follow some people for the content they post and some for their comments. Now, I'm sure that people use the follower/following system in different ways, but if there were some kind of distinction that a user could make privately, between those they follow for the sake of conversation or content, but still appear to be following those people, might that work toward sidestepping the guilt?