And they let me hear the beat tape, and I just never heard someone not give a fuck, and that, to me, was the most liberating moment. Like, “Oh, so, all this pleasing my father, being perfect... I can now...” Now I got to undo all the education and all the hours of preparation that I did. I got to undo that.
Ahmir "Questlove" Thompson, 2013
Further reading:
https://tinysubversions.com/essays/dontcry/
https://www.theguardian.com/music/2011/jan/27/j-dilla-suite-ma-dukes