1.) don't be a dick
2.) don't ask me about my sex life (frankly it's boring and nonexistent anyways so there's not much to tell)
I Can't speak to the transmasculine experience, I'm a trans woman. I can also only talk about my experience, which is one of many different trans experiences.
Ask away. I'll try to clarify lingo as I go - The QUILTBAG community loves its lingo.