thenewgreen: I read the first account from Andy's father and can't bring myself to read more, it's just too damned draining. When most people think of bullying, they imagine someone giving a fellow student a "charlie horse" or calling them a "nerd" in the hallway while dumping their books. Granted, all of these things are bad, they are just the tip of the iceberg. Kids are being abused physically and sexually by the "bullies". Imagine if ever day you went to work, someone there forced you to perform homosexual acts or they would kick your ass? Imagine if everyday at work the guy in the cubicle next to you punched you in the face, degrading you in front of the rest of the staff. You might end up going postal on them.Sad story, without an easily defined person to blame.