As people approach midlife, the days of youthful exploration, when life felt like one big blind date, are fading. Schedules compress, priorities change and people often become pickier in what they want in their friends.
Would love to hear from some of the (relatively) older people here on Hubski if this is what they've encountered, and if so, how they have dealt with it.
Edit: Holy wow! I didn't realize that you get suggested tags for community tags too. Brilliant.