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McSlipperton  ·  3161 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: I'm back.

Welcome back.

Were you just unplugging for awhile, or did you do somewhere that didn't have internet?

McSlipperton  ·  3181 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Tetschnology

Thank you for your post. As an American who has stayed most of my life on the west coast, your story gives me some perspective about how things are/were in Russia that I probably would not otherwise gain.

McSlipperton  ·  3187 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: NASA Releases Updated Global Map of Pluto.

I've been waiting for pictures of Pluto that were wider than 20 pixels square for about 25 years now. This is beautiful.

McSlipperton  ·  3199 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: I'm getting divorced and dating is crazy now

I'm sorry to hear that you are going through a divorce right now. Just get through it, don't push yourself too hard to 'connect' with someone, just out of lonliness. That being said, when you are really ready to date, I would suggest something online. After my divorce, a move out of town, and about a year to simmer and be awkward - I tried online dating. Try the different sites out, and see which one(s) fit what you are looking for.

The best advice I can give to you about online dating is to:

1) Consider it to be like an interview ( Is this woman crazy? How many children does she have? e.t.c. )

2) Go grab coffee/lunch - not dinner ( dinner is for second meetings ) ASAP - it may feel like there is some 'chemistry' on chats and texts - many will flop when you meet them and try to actually talk with them. ( Remember, this is like an interview for the first few meetings )

3) Have fun - I considered it a relatively inexpensive way to meet new people and get out of the house, where I would have been just being a home-body otherwise.

I hope your pain is short, and that your darkest days are already in your past...

BTW - I met my fiancee on Tinder, of all places. I was tired of all of the forms and crafting messages to interest her. I was not into hookups - I had just heard of that app mentioned on many different talk shows and such... You find what you are looking for.

Good luck, brother.

McSlipperton  ·  3205 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Hubski, what are your hobbies, and how did you discover them?

I like to cut rocks. I mine them whenever I have the time for a trip into the wild. Polish up some book ends, cut and polish some cabachons for jewelry, I tried my hand at faceting - but didn't care for it much. I've been playing with rocks for 20+ years now. An old boss of mine took me to a rock shop in the town that I grew up in, and this little old lady that ran the store enticed me to join their "rock club", with annual fees of $12.00 to start. I just wanted to carve soap stone, but it turned out to be a much deeper rabbit hole than that. As soon as I cut a large quartz crystal into slabs, then polished them up, I was absolutely hooked.

McSlipperton  ·  3205 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Anyone going to Defcon 23?

I wish! Are you? Are there any speakers or subjects that you would care to check out from this year's line up?

McSlipperton  ·  3211 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Why do you live where you live?

What part of the SJ valley are you from? I'm from Fresno, but currently living in Reno. I love it here, much closer to the mountains, and the weather is so much cooler.