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vlehto  ·  4068 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: What Are You Most Self-Conscious About?

I'm afraid I'm turning into that bearded, loud guy who is always right about everything but who nobody wants to listen.

I'm bearded guy who is always right about stuff already.

To give some context: I'm 190 cm (6'2'') tall and I weight 107 kg (237 lbs) yet I'm not particularly fat (my waist is the narrowest part of my torso). Someone said I look like Thor. And I like to argue because I think it's a good way to learn stuff. And I have a rough sense of humor. I've noticed that people don't want to engage with me that much anymore. I'm still a student after seven years of university and it doesn't help that many of my friends are younger. I think I'm misinterpreted as angry many times just because of my style of communication. I think I learned that style from my dad. 26 years old and turning into old man.

This may sound like "hehe, I'm so alfa male!!11" but I really don't see many good points. I usually don't have to be afraid on the streets at night, but that's about it. No, girls don't surround me.