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lil · 4463 days ago · link · · parent · post: Op-Ed Contributor - The Death of the R.S.V.P. - NYTimes.com
because to do otherwise would lead the inviter to think that you possibly hadn't received their letter
I'm increasingly thinking that people don't get my email (much the way I seem to miss interesting hubski posts). What I send might get put in a spam folder or buried in a bunch of other mail. If I haven't seen a person in a few months, it's possible I do not have the right email address. All this obviously points to using the phone and leavig a voice mail. I'm not sure that's necessarily any better.