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WanderingEng  ·  2199 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Want to become self-compassionate? Run a marathon

I can't decide if I think this is a bunch of feel good baloney or if I wholeheartedly agree. I think I agree.

It isn't just the training or completing the event, it's the atmosphere of the event itself. They're all incredibly optimistic. I've been to big college football games, and events like that are antagonistic. But running is different. Nobody is hoping another runner trips or cramps up. Other than for the dozen or so runners at the front, everyone else is there for themselves. I feel better about myself for being able to do it, and I feel better about others as we all struggle in our own ways.

The Boston Marathon is today, and it's pouring rain. Those soaking masses will have an incredible shared experience. It will be awful, but there will be fond memories.