a thoughtful web.
Good ideas and conversation. No ads, no tracking.   Login or Take a Tour!
comment
oyster  ·  2254 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Pubski: February 14, 2018

I read something the other day that said something along the lines of how a good relationship doesn't make us want to change the other person, it makes us want to change ourselves. I'm still digesting it ,but it definitely stuck out to me. If someones wants it they'll work hard to grow and become the person you need in a relationship and you'll do the same for them. It's like we can only fix ourselves, and as much as we can support others we can't do the heavy lifting for them.