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kleinbl00  ·  2485 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Pubski: June 28, 2017

Vindictive gets you nowhere. The goal of divorce is to get the irritant out of your clamshell as soon as possible because while we all love to look at pearls, nobody wants to make them.

You can't move on with someone else until the ex gives up the mental real estate, and that's so much easier without conflict.