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lil · 2931 days ago · link · · parent · post: Lil's Book of Questions: Who Would You Like to Talk to and What About?
My guess is that it was always doomed - although an unhealthy baby puts a strain on any bond they might have had - you could also be a cause for them to examine their feelings and needs and become closer. btw, a healthy baby also puts a strain on any bond a couple has. btww: Without the forces of society, religion, family, repression of needs, repression of awareness, valium, secure jobs and so on keeping the couple together -- without those things, relationships are mostly doomed, at least for the first 3 or 4 go-arounds. It's usually in the first one or two tries that the kids arrive.