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oyster  ·  2758 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: What should teenagers spend their time doing?

Dude your advice wasn't to make up excuses for why you're dating the chubby girls because your friends will tease you. It was to use chubby girls to build confidence so later you can date hot girls. Advising somebody to use others is a shit thing to do no matter how you want to look at it. It's not meeting her emotional and social needs it's just being an ass. It sure as hell isn't challenging stigma to date the chubby girl then say it's just practice. If you're going to date somebody it should be because you have an actual interest in them. One night stands are for the people you're uninterested in for anything more than a good time.

If somebody wants to be an ass that's their choice but really let's not sugar coat it.