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lil  ·  2760 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: What should teenagers spend their time doing?

    If you can stand the stigma from your friends, date a chubby chick for your first, its easier. I compare it to riding a bicycle with training wheels. Its just easier and helps build confidence to move on to hotter chicks.
if you take snoodog's advice, you will have begun a process of objectifying and manipulating women with lower self-esteem to build your own. That's the quickest way to becoming a total asshole to yourself and others, so good luck with that. For all we know you might be a chubby girl yourself.

snoodog also gave you some good advice, which is this:

    My advice for starting out is to avoid girls that are "Cool" find girls in the "out" crowd they are searching for relevance just like you are.

so snoo kind of gets it that girls are human beings who are searching for relevance. snoo -- seriously, wtf?

_refugee_ what do you think. See snoo's shit below or above or somewhere on this thread.