snoodog also gave you some good advice, which is this: so snoo kind of gets it that girls are human beings who are searching for relevance. snoo -- seriously, wtf? _refugee_ what do you think. See snoo's shit below or above or somewhere on this thread.If you can stand the stigma from your friends, date a chubby chick for your first, its easier. I compare it to riding a bicycle with training wheels. Its just easier and helps build confidence to move on to hotter chicks.
if you take snoodog's advice, you will have begun a process of objectifying and manipulating women with lower self-esteem to build your own. That's the quickest way to becoming a total asshole to yourself and others, so good luck with that. For all we know you might be a chubby girl yourself. My advice for starting out is to avoid girls that are "Cool" find girls in the "out" crowd they are searching for relevance just like you are.