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OftenBen  ·  3045 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: What Rustles Your Jimmies?

Coming home from work, or running errands to an empty apartment.

I grew up in a house with 4 younger brothers, friends and family of all ages and relations showing up at all hours of the day and quite a few at night. I went from that environment to a dorm, where there was always someone awake/ cogent enough to say hi or give me a hard time.

Now I live alone, and when I first was getting settled into my new place I'd walk in the door and sarcastically go 'Nobody, I'm home!' and have a bit of a laugh. Now I'll do it every couple of days in a very dejected manner. I do really enjoy my me-time, but when it's no longer voluntary it becomes very tiresome.