After I realized that 4chan was too toxic for me I found Reddit. After digging in the mud, taking some moments to wallow in the NSFW, and so growing bored with that, I found that I was really settling on /r/askreddit, /r/casualconversation, and /r/casualiama. So it looks like I am really just looking for nice discussion. I'll be honest and I did lurk in FPH. But I'm not looking for that type of atmosphere. I ditched Facebook of Google+ just so I could get away from all of the noise of the loud static.
This place looks clean and nice. I'll spent some time looking around. Hopefully I'll find topics like my favorite subs. I was big on /r/imaginary___, space imagery, sfw porn and of course discussion of my favorite video games.