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OftenBen  ·  3704 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: It's Entirely Normal To Not Want Kids

It's the

    going along with having babies

part that makes it sound that way. You are 'going along with,' acquiescing, rather than desiring or chasing after such a thing yourself. Defeat is certainly shameful.