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Last chance to play DJ - what song do you want played at your funeral/wake?

It seems that Death is swirling around me these days, with several losses lately, both family and friends. So it's been on my mind.

Easy one for me, though - Monty Python's "Always Look On the Bright Side of Life". It only makes sense, to play the song from the end of "Life Of Brian", to mark the end of the life of Brian.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WlBiLNN1NhQ

A good friend told me his wife wants "Baby Got Back" by Sir Mixalot played at her funeral - some inside joke. I love the irreverence of that idea.



by thundara 374 days ago  ·  link
John Cage - 4'33"
by thenewgreen 374 days ago  ·  link
Nicely played. Your poor family members will all think the speakers went out. It would cause quite the scene. -I like it. Still a prankster even in death.

Or perhaps you would actually let them all know and it would be a moment of "musical" reflection. Better yet, you could pass out blank sheets of paper and ask them to all sing along.

by briandmyers 374 days ago  ·  link
No mercy for your mourners. eh?
by ou812dot 374 days ago  ·  link
Depeche Mode "Enjoy the Silence"

Words are very unnecessary, they can only do harm http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pMfV0sVQ_VU

by onlinejen22 374 days ago  ·  link
Pink Floyd ---Comfortably Numb.

"When I was a child I had a fleeting glimpse

Out of the corner of my eye

I turned to look but it was gone

I cannot put my finger on it now

The child has grown, the dream is gone"

by thenewgreen 374 days ago  ·  link
Alright, I've given this some more thought and I have to change my pick. My final answer: Do You Realize by the Flaming Lips -There really can be no other choice for me. Hopefully it will inspire those left behind.

If you've not heard it, it's got some of my favorite lyrics.

by ecib 373 days ago  ·  link
You win.
by briandmyers 374 days ago  ·  link
Good choice. FL are from my old home town in the States (I lived in Norman, OK before moving to Auckland).
by thenewgreen 374 days ago  ·  link
Nice. I just posted a Wayne Coyne interview that I dug and tagged you in it. Any stories about seeing Wayne mowing his lawn on a sunday afternoon?
by briandmyers 374 days ago  ·  link
Was just reading the FL Wikipedia page - "Do You Realize" is apparently the official rock song of Oklahoma (I did not know such a thing existed!)
by thenewgreen 374 days ago  ·  link
Huh? Neither did I. I wonder what the official rock song of Michigan is? One Hubski dollar to whoever figures that one out...
by briandmyers 374 days ago  ·  link
by mk 374 days ago  ·  link
MC5. That's pretty awesome. It should be.

I don't have a Hubski dollar, but I'd be happy to send you a Detroit Cheer, which is probably even cooler. Send an address to hubski at hubski.

by thenewgreen 374 days ago  ·  link
wow. I seriously didn't think such a list existed. Well done briandmyers. mk does such a thing as a Hubski dollar exist?
by briandmyers 374 days ago  ·  link
It's not a serious list, I don't think (see Alaska, for example). There's a wikipedia page for state songs, but it doesn't list any rock song for Michigan, sadly.
by thenewgreen 374 days ago  ·  link
HA! I should have read the list instead of jumping right to the MC5 -though I had never heard that song from them. My favorite is Florida: Nick Drake “Seriously, Anyone Who Doesn’t Like The Gators Is a Fucking Pussy” -Don't recall ever hearing that Nick Drake tune.

Though, a Nick Drake tune at your funeral might be just what the mourners ordered:

by JakobVirgil 374 days ago  ·  link
http://youtu.be/YhPU6jEwUl4 Lay me low - Nick Cave and the bad seeds.
by thenewgreen 374 days ago  ·  link
I like your pick briandmyers, such a great song. I'm sorry to hear that you are experiencing loss right now. Hopefully you are able to take comfort in music, I can tell you are a fan.

here is a link to a song that I recorded called "Grow Up". I love this song and I think I'd like it played at my funeral. Why not? I wrote it and recorded it with some great friends.

I love this question though and I'm going to think on it some more.

Baby Got Back?? -Hmmm.... :-)

by briandmyers 374 days ago  ·  link
Thanks for that. "Grow Up" is a beautiful song, thanks for sharing.
by briandmyers 371 days ago  ·  link
I've been listening to "Elaborate Maps" today on my lunch hour. There's a lot of good stuff in there; many thanks for making that available.
by thenewgreen 371 days ago  ·  link
Man, that just made my day. Thanks for letting me know about that, it's so great to know that it is being enjoyed.... and in New Zealand no less ;-) We've gone global!
by briandmyers 373 days ago  ·  link
Thanks to all for sharing. I attended a funeral yesterday; my daughter-in-love's Nana - she was 86. She had requested that her service open with "That's Amore", and end with "White Rose of Athens". It was lovely. RIP Ruby.
by mk 374 days ago  ·  link
For some reason, I've had the same feeling about this for a very long time:

New Order Mesh

This is the first time I've mentioned it though.

  Below the surface this day I need it light
  Inside dimension lies another sacrifice
  Once out of reach, we never speak, we never compromise
  As they turned to gold the edges froze and seemed to turn to ice
  All flight departures assembled not returned
  Left in these passions I looked but never learned
  There's hope, you've heard there's life in another world
  Sometimes you'll find that truth is never kind
  In the ghost lies a portrait of space that time is never here
  In the mind of a fallen man, an easy day in another land
  Ship sails out to sea, away from me, I just stand and stare
  Assassin clears his lens, another end, I wasn't even there
  One day it came to mind we even leave the rest behind
  Some day, I know, you get where you should go
  There's hope, you've heard there's life in another world
  Sometimes we'll find that truth is never kind
  One day it came to mind we even leave the rest behind
  Some day, I know, we even get where we used to go
  There's hope, you've heard there's life in another world
by ecib 374 days ago  ·  link
Imagine by John Lennon. Kinda cliche but it says all the right things.
by briandmyers 374 days ago  ·  link
Nice choice. I can't listen to this song, or "Watching the Wheels", without tearing up a little. There's an obscure song by a New Zealand band called The Feelers, "Fallout Shelter", which always reminds me of "Imagine" because it has this line : "Imagine Lennon, if he was not the only one; No, John, you're not the only one."
by zmagma 374 days ago  ·  link
I'm not sure if I'll ever be awesome enough to deserve it but this song is lovely

Moby - My Weakness http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ioDcGjwu988

by Hein 374 days ago  ·  link
"Red mij niet" (Don't save me) by dutch performer Maarten van Roozendaal. I could try to place a translation but some of it just doesn't work in english.
by croisillon 374 days ago  ·  link
I've picked mine since I was 17 or so: "Life is Life" by Opus. At the time it was so that people remember me when partying.
by krisc 374 days ago  ·  link
Highwayman -- Arbouretum or Crippled Black Phoenix - Time of Ye Life/Born for Nothing/Paranoid Arm of Narcoleptic Empire. Honestly, I would probably want a 3-hour mixtape listening party kinda thing, because I'd love to do silly, epic, and inspirational.
by winston 374 days ago  ·  link
Also cliche but right for me: Sympathy For the Devil
by briandmyers 374 days ago  ·  link
Another that I would choose - "With A Little Help From My Friends". It's so popular that it is often overlooked. It's a lonely song, about the conquering of loneliness; uplifting and powerful.


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