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What did you do for mother's day?

by forwardslash · #askhubski
posted 370 days ago · shared by: 4
Just curious what everyone else did for mother's day. I went for a classic and got my mother a potted plant.



by lil 369 days ago  ·  link
Good point mk. Sunday, took my 85-year-old mother out to a Chinese buffet that she loves. Later picked up my 28-year-old daughter at her job just to spend a little while with her. In the morning filled up my mom's car (she thinks it's empty if it's 3/4 full) and gave it a car wash. (Would have done that anyway though). Also just found my mom's family's ship manifest from when they immigrated in 1926 (my mom in utero) and shared it with her and family. Appreciated their courage in leaving everything behind, making it possible for more moms in the family (me) and more babies to come along.
by mk 369 days ago  ·  link
    Also just found my mom's family's ship manifest from when they immigrated in 1926 (my mom in utero) and shared it with her and family.

That is awesome, lil. I do wish I knew more about my ancestors, who came by boat, mostly from Poland. I recall that at least one child was lost on the trip... We pass in and out, and it's sad, but it's also everything else. My wife's family is lucky enough to have a family tree book that spans 500 years. She is Chinese, and all but one copy survived the Cultural Revolution, because a brave uncle hid it instead of destroying it. I'm pretty honored to now have been included in its pages. I suppose we need to get our daughter added too!

Glad you had a good Mother's day.

by lil 324 days ago  ·  link
Hi MK - I just found your comment now. I keep forgetting this feature of hubski. - That's amazing about your family tree book being saved by one uncle. That's heroic. If there's more details about that (maybe your wife interviewed him?) I'd love to hear the story. I would include the story when I talk about these things. - I wrote a story called Family Story Vs Ship's Manifest about how what the family told the ship'spurser contradicted what I know from family story. I can post the link at some point. Steve is right about the genealogy bug being catchy. I meet the addicts all the time.
by mk 324 days ago  ·  link
Thanks. Definitely post that link.

I know too little of the story behind my wife's family history. I know that her great grandfather was one of the few that passed the imperial examination, and was a tutor to the first president's child, so they were a privileged family for some time. It's interesting, in their oldest photos, then men are in western suits, and later they are in traditional dress. After Mao, western style was rejected, and even became dangerous. People burned old photos if they were wearing western dress in them.

by lil 323 days ago  ·  link
http://www.richler.net/Toronto-Shem-Tov-2012-06.pdf

My story "Family History Vs Ship Manifest" is at the bottom of this e-Journal, p. 23 and continues for a few lines on p. 9.

lb

by mk 322 days ago  ·  link
That was a very interesting read, thanks!

I wonder, are our descendants going to scour old web caches, looking at our Facebook accounts, etc?

by steve 368 days ago  ·  link
https://familysearch.org/ - free

http://www.ancestry.com/ - fairly inexpensive

I just found a few of your family records within seconds. You should kick the tires a bit.

by mk 368 days ago  ·  link
Thanks, this is awesome.
by steve 368 days ago  ·  link
the genealogy bug is a catchy one... tread lightly ;-)
by astol 370 days ago  ·  link
Went to the zoo with wife and 11 week old baby girl, it was great!
by ecib 370 days ago  ·  link
I just got together with my brother and sister. Our mom passed many years ago, so we just got together in her memory, played some cards, and had a drink.
by sounds_sound 370 days ago  ·  link
Nice. Love that the flowers match the candy. I'm about to call Mom right now. Shout out to all you Hubski Moms out there. It's your day!
by thenewgreen 370 days ago  ·  link
On Friday I took our 16 month old daughter to the store and she picked out a card for mommy as well as a potted plant. We then came home and she drew a picture (squiggly lines) on the card as her signature. I also got my wife a card. We gave them to her today and we also gave her some "free time". I watched my daughter so my wife could go running, relax and lounge a bit. -Something she never gets to do. We went out for a nice lunch too at one of our favorite restaurants. It was a pretty chill day. perfect.
by mk 369 days ago  ·  link
With my wife and her mom, and our 8 week-old girl, I picked up my grandma, and went to my Mom's house, where my brother, his wife, and their kids were. It was a good time.

As I get older, and family members pass away, and new ones are born, I find myself valuing these days more and more.



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