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_refugee_  ·  4115 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Tell me about your first love.

I'm jaded. I'm going to claim that I've never been in love.

This isn't true, but none of them feel right enough to actually be my "first love." I know there have definitely been people I thought I was in love with that I really was just infatuated with, or people who weren't significant enough to me for it have been 'real.'

The guy who broke my heart, ripped it out, and stomped it into little bits - now, maybe that was love.

Can you measure love by how much someone can hurt you?

Edit: Cop-out answer #2, can I decide I love everyone all the time? #copout