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humanodon  ·  4196 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Have you ever said something and then immediately regretted it?

I can't think of any specific instances, but early on I learned the power of having a good comeback. It really bothered me as kid when I experienced l'esprit d'escalier and so I worked on it.

Unfortunately, I got to be very good at it, to the point where when insulted or even mildly slighted, a barb would leave my mouth almost automatically. That, combined with my naturally sharp tongue, has resulted in more than a few regrettable interactions. I will admit though, that I enjoyed it for a while, as it usually got laughs when I was a kid.

Now, I make a real effort to think before I speak.





relevant_thing  ·  4195 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Your link is broken, here's a fixed one

humanodon  ·  4195 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Thanks!

ecib  ·  4196 days ago  ·  link  ·  

This just sounds like the plot of a small indie flick that I want to watch.

user-inactivated  ·  4196 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Title, of course, "l'esprit d'escalier". Lots of nudity.

ecib  ·  4195 days ago  ·  link  ·  

You'd like that wouldn't you? But you'd never get that far even in an indie film which is way easier because you'd be too busy delivering pre-emptive barbs of questionable justification based on comically mixed and missed signals, thus detonating all potential interaction on a deeper mental or physical level.

This would also probably be a metaphor for two other things.

user-inactivated  ·  4195 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Premature escalieration.

humanodon  ·  4196 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Any ideas for a title or a tagline?

monevo  ·  4196 days ago  ·  link  ·  
humanodon  ·  4196 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Oops, thanks for the correction