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user-inactivated  ·  1381 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Pubski: July 8, 2020

    Here's the problem with philosophical discussion, though - if you just discuss things in the abstract you'll be limited on where you can go and who you can learn from. We're already going in circles here

No. You start with the abstract and drill down. We're going in circles because you don't want to drill.

    I'm happy to have those conversations with you even though I could just tell you to start with Plato and Descartes.

If you're telling me to go read Plato and Descartes, then no, you don't want to have a discussion. What you're saying is "I'm right. I don't value your thoughts. Go read these guys to see why I'm right. Conversations with you aren't worth it."

    Because the arguments you are making? They're the kind of positions you take because you haven't lived them

Personal stuff edited out Honestly? If it wasn't for my wife and loving friends? I'd be one of those "deaths of despair" statistics you read about in the morning news and then tut tut to yourself about how the world is so cruel.

I don't need to read Dostoevsky, because my life might as well be one of his novels.

I want a conversation because these are concepts I care about. You want me to validate your worldview. So now there's no conversation, not because I'm mad at you, but because we can't agree on the conditions as to how this conversation should take place.





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I'm not mad. But honestly? You're being so dismissively condescending and assumptive of me that it's honestly baffling. I'm overwhelmed.

Look at me, I'm not over here assuming and stating your positions for you so you have to waste your time taking them apart.

    When you come here with your intro philosophy 101 student ideas of the nature of "goodness" and ask for debate without any references, you are being asked to be indulged without needing to learn.

Dude. Seriously? First of all, massively insulting. Second of all, I'm not the one who approaches conversations like "in order to have a conversation with me, you should read some Baha'i Writings, The Quran from cover to cover, a little bit of Tich Nach Hahn, some Saint Augustine." I can easily say "this is what I think and why" and when asked, expand on those thoughts. If you were to ask "Where did you get such an idea" I can often cite chapter and verse. I mean, the fact that you say "I can't talk with you about these things until you read these authors first" hints that you have less of a concrete grasp on your world view than I do on mine. Furthermore, I never asked you to expand on Dostoevsky, or existentialism, or anything of the sort. You just keep pushing the subject.

Mercy.

I mean, on I can go, but honestly? To be blunt? I'm not trying to hurt your feelings here, but make you understand the reality of the situation? You're being a condescending asshole. Like, massive, to the point of where everything you just typed is less of a conversation and more of an experiment in surrealist prose.

I'm baffled. Utterly baffled.

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user-inactivated  ·  1381 days ago  ·  link  ·  

A conversation with courtesy instead of impudent laden replies is always a good start. I mean, geesh, there's people on the other end of that screen.