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comment by ButterflyEffect
ButterflyEffect  ·  2184 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Pubski: April 4, 2018

I made a mistake, and broke up with my girlfriend last week. Likely getting back together tonight, with a few changes on my end.

1. Be more open (all around)

2. Explore her needs more (all around)

3. Move some workouts and runs to the morning / during lunch breaks to free up evening time for us. Which, I've toyed with this idea relationship-or-not for a while now. It's a logistics nightmare right now, and I try to be good at logistics, so...

We'll see what happens. What I do know is that this year is still chaotic good, and continually only getting worse. "The busy" trap is in full effect, but I like it.





oyster  ·  2184 days ago  ·  link  ·  

It doesn’t sound like a mistake if it gave you the space to figure out what you really want and what you need to do to get it.

ButterflyEffect  ·  2184 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Well, I also could have said something along the lines of wanting a few days worth of space to think instead of just breaking up.

oyster  ·  2184 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Nah, too safe.

ButterflyEffect  ·  2184 days ago  ·  link  ·  

You know me well.