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snoodog  ·  2253 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Why American men are getting less marriageable

Meh Idk about men in general but I cared and found a partner that was stable had a good job so that we could buy a house and live a comfortable life. I passed up other partners that did not meet that criteria





OftenBen  ·  2253 days ago  ·  link  ·  

KB talked about this in more words than I did.

Those who can plan, do, and are choosy.

Those who can't plan, don't, and are not choosy.

There are more of the latter category.

snoodog  ·  2253 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Those who dont plan tend to be poorer, just saying.... Although some subset take unreasonable risks but have so far been luckly

OftenBen  ·  2253 days ago  ·  link  ·  

I agree.