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_refugee_  ·  2339 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Pubski: November 1, 2017

Yeah, I sat down and graded all my recent years like a month ago, I admit it.

I gave 25 a C. It wasn't bad but it did tend to go downhill. There were a lot of changes that proved more stressful than positive. I think I started out 25 pretty optimistic but by the end of the year felt kind of caught.

Since I just turned 28, I don't know. I gave 27 an A and I stand by it. It was a year of personal challenge and growth. I've done very well at work this year. I'm very positive about 28, considering this foundation and all. There's a lot of promise and I feel well poised to make the most of it. I guess I'm finally maybe embracing being a grown up.





goobster  ·  2339 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Thought Experiment: I wonder if I can figure out what 25 was for me...

Checked LinkedIn. Apparently I was working as a Multimedia Designer at NASA's Ames Research Center in California.

Therefore I was still married. Living in the Haight-Ashbury district of San Francisco. Probably riding either a BMW R90/6 or Yamaha XS1100 to work down highway 280 every day.

I had long hair.

I generally brought my lunch to work and ate it in this hangar, which was empty at the time.

What else? Shaggy was singing Oh Carolina and Cypress Hill were Insane In The Brain, Radiohead were Creeps, and Nirvana was singing about their Heart Shaped Box.

Big year for movies.... Jurassic Park, Sleepless in Seattle, Groundhog Day, Ms. Doubtfire, Cool Runnings, Robin Hood - Men in Tights, and Dazed and Confused, to name a few...

Hm. Other than that, I don't remember a lot about 25 years ago.

veen  ·  2339 days ago  ·  link  ·  

It's so weird how memory distorts time and erases all the boring parts. I clearly remember my time abroad in Canada feeling like an incredibly long time, while simultaneously having forgotten most of the parts that made it long. And that was only three years ago.

Now that I think of it, I'm pretty sure I kept a simple diary for a few months in Evernote back in 2012. I wonder if I can dig that up...

edit: I found it, and I kept it up for almost two years! Glad I did, lots of small memories that I vaguely remember.

_refugee_  ·  2339 days ago  ·  link  ·  

I’ve moved every year(+), which has the convenient benefit that if I can chart back to where I was living, it’s relatively easy to know what was happening.

weewooweewoo  ·  2339 days ago  ·  link  ·  

I just wanted to say that I still have your "When Did You Begin To Become A Real Person?" thread stickied from the first day I joined pubski. It's been super helpful for me to read pretty often.

veen  ·  2338 days ago  ·  link  ·  

I must've missed that discussion back then. It's a good question to ponder about.

_refugee_  ·  2338 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Thanks. What a good thread to revisit.

ButterflyEffect  ·  2339 days ago  ·  link  ·  

I...actually wasn't expecting that kind of response. From your more recent Pubski-isms, it does seems like you've been doing really well for yourself! It's been good to read those kind of things.

goobster  ·  2339 days ago  ·  link  ·  
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OftenBen  ·  2339 days ago  ·  link  ·  

    Yeah, I sat down and graded all my recent years like a month ago, I admit it.

The fact that I'm sort of worried about doing this tells me that I probably should do this.

Props to you for honest reflection, and cheers to a new year of awesome!

_refugee_  ·  2338 days ago  ·  link  ·  

I like to channel Vonnegut as he graded all his books. I can't find a non-trash link, but it's a thing you'll see around on the internet from time to time.