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elizabeth  ·  2449 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: What happened to ThatFanficGuy?

I think this conversation is unproductive.

It feels like taking behind the guys back.

Sure, he had his quirks - but who doesn't? This diversity of experiences is why I like hubski. And his linguistic post s were super informative and plain amazing.

And to re-iterate what was said - you can always fileter folks. You don't have to read anyone's diary if thats what they feel like posting. I read a lot and didn't reply to a bunch (for lack of productive commentary) . Cause I still cared. But you can just filter and forget - that's the beauty of the 'ski





cgod  ·  2449 days ago  ·  link  ·  

You are right and I suppose I'm feeling ungenerous tonight TFG became a significant member I Hubski because he was so active. I sometimes appreciated that activity and I sometimes found it difficult.

I feel like I tried to tell him a few important things about being happier and he shrugged off every single one. He wasn't happy and more than half of his solutions were diet, exercise and keeping a more ridged schedule.

I found it frustrating.

I hope he is doing better. I'm sure he looks at Hubski still, I don't think I could talk behind his back.

Some times some things on Hubski are far from beautiful. I've feel like I'm in a Hubski funk. I've seen a few pieces of content that I've really found distasteful and I'm probably a surly bastard right now due to other things in life.

steve  ·  2448 days ago  ·  link  ·  

    I'm probably a surly bastard right now

When aren't you a surly bastard? (you know I'm kidding)

    due to other things in life.

I hope they resolve themselves sooner than later.

OftenBen  ·  2448 days ago  ·  link  ·  

    I think this conversation is unproductive.

Sort of necessary though, would you agree? If we want the community to develop, we need to be able to examine why people join, why they leave, what can be learned?

I get the icky-feeling. It might be necessary though for the good of the group.

elizabeth  ·  2448 days ago  ·  link  ·  

For sure - I meant the part where people were saying they disliked some of his posts. I felt that was beside the point of why he left.