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comment by iammyownrushmore
iammyownrushmore  ·  2425 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Does anyone know anything about personal finance stuff?

Much appreciated.

Everyone has been giving me the answer I needed to the question that was between the lines, which is pretty much "chill out, leave it alone until you feel confident about a decision."

I know my post is a little hot mess, I def wasn't expecting a concrete like "here's what you should do," but you're right that I wasn't even concise about what my end game is supposed to be. I appreciate you letting me know, I need to ask better questions.





goobster  ·  2425 days ago  ·  link  ·  

    I appreciate you letting me know, I need to ask better questions...

Just to be clear, I am not calling you out for "asking a bad question."

My intent was to drive some self-reflection into your request, and inspire you to dig a little deeper into your thinking about what you really want to have happen with this money. I saw "just don't want to mess with it" and "best for me" to be somewhat contradictory requirements. The money markets are constantly changing, so "best for me" is going to change over time. Possibly several times within a single year.

So by getting more solid about your goals with the money, you can also make the best use of the smarski's feedback and ideas... :-)

iammyownrushmore  ·  2425 days ago  ·  link  ·  

I totally understand, by better questions I mean I need to figure out like, "what can I do?" and also communicate my goals better (though clearly you can already tell I'm a bit lacking that department :) ). I'm glad the conversation here has gone in multiple directions cause what I want to do is def influenced by what I can do and people are bringing up a few things that I hadn't considered.

I see what you're saying about those seeming contradictory, I simply meant even if I choose to let it sit somewhere so I don't have to actively do anything, what is the best way for me to do that? Is an index fund the right way? What is a money market? Please don't worry about answering those, I'm just trying to wrap my head around the gaps in my understanding. Once I feel like I have a more solid footing, I will definitely be coming back to query the hive :)

Also, thanks for the response, I really do appreciate it!

kleinbl00  ·  2425 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Another "don't overthink it" observation:

Women typically outperform men when it comes to investing because they simply don't fuck with it so much. Most investment professionals will tell you to rebalance your portfolio yearly. Fucking with it every six months can do damage even if you know what you're doing. I mean, sure - have some money to play with (I play with fake money, real money is too dear) but leave that shit alone for the most part.