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kleinbl00  ·  360 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Pubski: June 28, 2017

    Speaking of my favorite young lady, her ex husband seems to have been pushed to psychopathy by the divorce.

Speaking as someone who has been there, done that, when the ex sets a low bar you can be doubly thankful - in part because it makes you look good, and in part because it gives you opportunities to demonstrate your helpfulness. My wife's ex broke into her car, stole her shit, and got his (her) car repossessed.

tacocat  ·  360 days ago  ·  link  ·  

He already violated the terms set in the divorce papers. If it was up to me he'd lose his house and job but I understand the difficulty for her in being vindictive in the way I would prefer.

kleinbl00  ·  360 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Vindictive gets you nowhere. The goal of divorce is to get the irritant out of your clamshell as soon as possible because while we all love to look at pearls, nobody wants to make them.

You can't move on with someone else until the ex gives up the mental real estate, and that's so much easier without conflict.