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Speaking as someone who has been there, done that, when the ex sets a low bar you can be doubly thankful - in part because it makes you look good, and in part because it gives you opportunities to demonstrate your helpfulness. My wife's ex broke into her car, stole her shit, and got his (her) car repossessed.Speaking of my favorite young lady, her ex husband seems to have been pushed to psychopathy by the divorce.
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Vindictive gets you nowhere. The goal of divorce is to get the irritant out of your clamshell as soon as possible because while we all love to look at pearls, nobody wants to make them. You can't move on with someone else until the ex gives up the mental real estate, and that's so much easier without conflict.