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ButterflyEffect · 2835 days ago · link · · parent · post: Pubski: July 20, 2016

The alternate, easier solution is for one of them to say they just want to be friends. Which is what just happened.

_refugee_ · 2834 days ago · link ·

I will honestly say that usually, in situations where I am potentially interested in multiple people at once, it tends to resolve itself in manners similar to this. Usually it fixes itself before it becomes a problem.

+discuss+discuss

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ButterflyEffect · 2834 days ago · link ·

One will have to end soon.

Had a fuckin' premonition five hours ahead of the fact, ref. I'm thinkin' if I even want to pursue the other one. I just...really want to start a band right now and would kind of rather do that. Or, ya know, just not give a shit. Deleted all forms of online dating last night. No more of that, feels like a healthy decision.