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OftenBen  ·  2905 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: My Current Soundtrack

For what it's worth, I'm finding your progress and mentality towards this whole process incredibly inspiring.

In 100% of the cases I've seen up until this one, divorce is the ending of people. It is where their happiness, self-worth, and 'light' seems to sputter and die out.

You're just getting started, and I've never seen you shine brighter.





kleinbl00  ·  2905 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Lol I'm my wife's second husband

OftenBen  ·  2905 days ago  ·  link  ·  

I don't know your wife, I know you.

Far as I know you've only had the one spouse, right?

kleinbl00  ·  2905 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Quite.

Take it from me, you are woefully mistaken.

OftenBen  ·  2905 days ago  ·  link  ·  

I wish my experience had led me to believe otherwise. :/

kleinbl00  ·  2905 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Lil's comment - the one you replied to - is proof positive that your experience thus far is incomplete.

OftenBen  ·  2905 days ago  ·  link  ·  

I agree wholeheartedly that my experience is incomplete.

Its now like, ninety something percent of cases, versus 100%.