Did you try joining any clubs or societies in college? I know in my university there's a ton that are really, really active. They're a great way to meet new people and hopefully they organize a few nights out, so at least they'll keep you distracted for a little while! Also, keep an eye out for events that are going on in your city! The more new people you meet the more likely it is you'll come across someone with whom you can relate. The tricky part is getting started, particularly for introverted people :).
Currently on the lookout for things that interest me. Probably gonna meet new people anyway because of the second language studying: given how few people want to study German in the group, we're probably going to merged with another such small faction from another group. Given already a set of common interests, it might be a meeting with most potential yet. Thanks for the ideas: those remind me, time and time again, that there are ways, and while there are ways, I can still do something about what bothers me.Did you try joining any clubs or societies in college?