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comment by camarillobrillo

I hear you. Please don't misunderstand. I don't avoid people. I love making connections. I'll spend a whole night screwing around with total strangers like we've known each other all our lives. The next day I've moved on. I don't dwell on what's wrong with that. Maybe I'll wake up soon in a panic at what I've done.

I'm in a very odd relationship. I know it may not last forever but I take it one day at a time. I'd go crazy thinking about the future.





humanodon  ·  3449 days ago  ·  link  ·  

    I'll spend a whole night screwing around with total strangers like we've known each other all our lives. The next day I've moved on.

To me, this is "making connections" as in networking, not as in laying groundwork for friendships. That takes time. Personally, that's something I've had to make a conscious choice to do. Everyone is different and if it works for you, then cool.

I'm convinced that friendship looks different to everyone and so do romantic relationships. Treat time as you will; it does the same to all of us.

camarillobrillo  ·  3449 days ago  ·  link  ·  

You've cracked my mask a little. Thanks for a new perspective. It'll be my background for the next week.