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thenewgreen  ·  3482 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: When did you find what you're passionate about (if at all)?

    When did you find what you're passionate about (if at all)?
Every day. No shit, every day I find something that I'm passionate about. If you are really, really un-lucky, you'll find one thing that you are passionate about. Otherwise, what you will find with time is that passion isn't what you find in things, it's what you bring to them.




mknod  ·  3482 days ago  ·  link  ·  

My experience mirrors this, it is better to be fluid with your passions. The most interesting people I've met have had a bunch of jobs, met a bunch of people, and have done things because they had the opportunity. If you ever find yourself saying you're bored, you just aren't trying.

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saldejums  ·  3481 days ago  ·  link  ·  

you know job interviewers do not like this. I am shit at selling anything, that includes myself, and most of employers sarcastically ask - but how can I be sure that you will be a good worker? According to you previous experience, you may not show up for the work, because you decided to hitchhike to Bulgaria, photographing birds at some stranger's farm.

Being passionate about most of the things has its negative side.

thenewgreen  ·  3481 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  x 2

I've both been the interviewer and the one being interviewed. I can say that without a doubt the #1 thing I look for in someone is passion.

When I ask someone about their past work experiences I want to hear passion in their recollection, not regret or bitterness. When I ask them to tell me about themselves etc, I want to hear passion.

Apathy sucks. Passion is where it's at. I've never left an interview thinking "man, I think I may have come across as too passionate."

_refugee_  ·  3481 days ago  ·  link  ·  

    I've never left an interview thinking "man, I think I may have come across as too passionate.

This is such a great point.

_refugee_  ·  3481 days ago  ·  link  ·  

I think tng refers to finding passion in his work, not being a creature so moved by passing fancies and whims that he will randomly hitchhike to Bulgaria.

The only downsides I can see about being passionate is:

1) you scare off people who aren't passionate

2) you have an emotional investment in what you're doing and so can experience emotional hurt if things don't go well

mknod  ·  3481 days ago  ·  link  ·  

    you know job interviewers do not like this.

Good.