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kleinbl00  ·  3558 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Are we obligated to choose noble professions?

Okay, that's pretty funny. It appears you wish to lead a goofy life but your subconscious keeps getting in the way.

By the way? Any profession you choose now is unlikely to be what you end up doing. At fifteen I was trying to decide between lawyer, chef, Green Beret or underwater welder, having given up on automotive designer. Four years later I'd designed a car. Nowhere in there was "design sound systems for stadiums" or "mix network television."





thenewgreen  ·  3558 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Wow, at 15 you were far more specific in what you thought you might do than I ever was. I think my list was lawyer, writer or musician. Underwater welder is pretty damn specific. But yeah, I never thought I'd be a business development manager for a financial institution. What kid dreams of that?

kleinbl00  ·  3558 days ago  ·  link  ·  

There aren't many ways to make a living scuba diving. Welding is one of them.

And welding is fucking fun. It was fucking fun at 15.

b_b  ·  3558 days ago  ·  link  ·  

I'm 'bout to marry a car designer. It's quite an interesting profession, and one I knew relatively little about until recently. One thing that I find fascinating is how few there are in the world. There are perhaps 1000 exterior designers (working for the major auto companies) globally, and it's a very communal group; everyone knows everyone at every company. My wife-to-be is one of two female exterior designers at her company, and one of about 6 in the world (women, for whatever reason, are far more concentrated in interior design). It's crazy how many people it takes to put a car on the road, but how few people actually influence what they look like (not counting the focus groups and such).

kleinbl00  ·  3558 days ago  ·  link  ·  

That's what stopped me: I realized that as much as I wanted to design "cars" I was most likely to end up designing "brake pads" or "CV joints" or "shift linkages."

I would also have had to move to Detroit or Los Angeles, and neither appealed to me.

b_b  ·  3558 days ago  ·  link  ·  

    I would also have had to move to...Los Angeles...

Joke's on you, eh?

kleinbl00  ·  3558 days ago  ·  link  ·  

The soul-searching necessary to get my ass down here would have been right at home in Season 1 of Orange is the New Black.

galen  ·  3558 days ago  ·  link  ·  

    It appears you wish to lead a goofy life but your subconscious keeps getting in the way.

Absolutely. It reminds me of my old religious beliefs - I used to be a Christian, but as far back as I knew to think critically about it, I understood that there was no rational reason that I was a Christian. I just felt like it was right. Finally, about a year ago, the feeling sort of disappeared, and I became an agnostic. Man, morals are annoying sometimes.