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elizabeth  ·  4014 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Hubski, how do you cool off?

It's a bit strange but when I'm pissed off at my boyfriend without legitimate reason ( just my stupid girl brain being all moody) I try to do something nice like do the dishes or something. Not in a passive agressive way. And while I'm doing it, I'm thinking stuff along the lines of ¨Here asshole, i'm nice to you. Now you have to do something nice for me. I'm gonna force you to be extra nice to me today. Muahaha. ¨ It's a bit evil but then he's all nice to me and I get over the stupid thing the pissed me off, AND the dishes are done. WIN/WIN no ?

Also, I cry. I really cry a lot. I can't really help it, I guess that's just how I am.





nowaypablo  ·  4014 days ago  ·  link  ·  

    Also, I cry. I really cry a lot. I can't really help it, I guess that's just how I am.
I dont think that's anything to be ashamed of, although a lot of people are afraid of it and think its a sign of weakness. Cry on girl.

    Here asshole, i'm nice to you. Now you have to do something nice for me. I'm gonna force you to be extra nice to me today. Muahaha

Hilarious/sinister as that is, I think that's probably one of the better ways to deal with frequent anger towards your boyfriend :D Made me laugh, thanks :)

elizabeth  ·  4014 days ago  ·  link  ·  

    frequent anger towards your boyfriend

Haha it's not too frequent and not really anger. More like stupid girlish frustration :)

nowaypablo  ·  4014 days ago  ·  link  ·  

haha I know what you mean. Cool of you to catch that in yourself, but don't blow it off as girlishness if there's an actual issue to address!