by lil

The bad news is love is a vast territory.

The good news is there is a map.

Unfortunately, as you get older, you have more and more trouble seeing the tiny print on the map.

It doesn't matter, though, because the map is in another language and – like driving in Europe - the map has no relation to the territory. So you navigate by landmarks and are as lost as ever.

Luckily, from time to time, there is a rest stop with a REALLY BIG MAP.

Look on the map.

If it says, "You are here" -- then you are probably in love.

hubski? _refugee_ and all the rest. How do you know?